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Semestinya kandungan yg lebih teratur dan menarik... :)

16 September..

Jika tanggal 31 ogos disambut dengan begitu semangat oleh segenap lapisan masyarakat,
agak berbeza pula situasi pada 16 September ini.Saya agak hairan bila 16 September berlalu dengan begitu datar.Tidak ada apa yang saya lihat,kecuali la cuti sehari yang berlaku.Satu persoalan bermain di fikiran saya,adakah 16 September..iaitu tarikh pembentukan Malaysia kian dilupakan oleh generasi muda kini?.
Seharusnya langkah-langkah atau aktiviti yang boleh menyerapkan kesedaran atau ingatan tentang hal ini harus dilaksanakan oleh badan-badan yang berkenaan,agar tarikh ini terus diingati sebagai tarikh yang penuh bersejarah oleh golongan generasi muda terutamanya warga Sabah ini.
##sedikit Info:
16 September 1963
*kemasukan Borneo Utara(Sabah) kedalam Persekutuan Malaysia.
*Secara ringkasnya tarikh ini merupakan tarikh terbentuknya Negara Malaysia.
~>Kemasukan Borneo Utara kedalam Pembentukan Negara Malaysia adalah berdasarkan kepada 20 Perkara.

Sampai di sini sahaja tulisanku ini.Moga-moga kita akan terus kukuh besama-sama dalam satu negara yang dicintai.

"SABAH MAJU JAYA"

hehe..
i'd like to share this one..
now..u can do something new to your Yahoo Messenger..

Login with Multiple IDs at the same time in Yahoo Messenger

Step 1- Go to Start > Run > type regedit and press enter.

Step 2 – Go to HKEY_CURRENT_USER > Software > Yahoo > pager > Test

Step 3 – On the right pane > right-click and choose new Dword value .

Step 4 – Rename it as Plural.

Step 5 – Double click and assign a decimal value of 1.

Step 6 – Now close registry and restart yahoo messenger.

Step 7 – For signing in with new id open another messenger .

Enjoy!

source :http://www.hacktrix.com/login-with-multiple-ids-at-the-same-time-in-yahoo-messenger

How to Become Better Friends

Eight Ways to Be a Better Friend

Being a friend isn't just something that we do. It's a skill that we can learn and improve upon. Here, eight ways to be a better friend.

Number One: Like yourself
The first step in having a good relationship with a friend is to have a good relationship with yourself. When we genuinely like ourselves, we become more attractive to other people. We have more to offer others because we are not constantly focused on our own image and reputation.

We become better friends because we don't cling. We are secure enough to spend time with a friend because we want to, not because we need to.

And relax--the journey to self-acceptance is life long. Practice it in small steps along the way.

Number Two: Choose wisely
Relationships among true friends take a steady dose of time and energy--two resources in limited supply for all of us. Identify the friends with whom you wish to create a closer bond. It's perfectly okay if not all of your acquaintances make the list. The closeness of your connections is far more important than the length of your guest lists.

Number Three: Make the time
Friends are important in many ways--so much so that these relationships often take on a life of their own. You owe it to yourself (and to your friends) to make these relationships a priority. Carve out some quality time for one another.

Number Four: Make the first move
This is where I have trouble, and I know I'm not alone. If you want to improve your relationships, put your fear of rejection aside and start taking more risks. Invite your friends to lunch. Organize a new playgroup. Invite them over for dinner.

Too often, we fail to follow up with our friends. Don't miss out - just make the first phone call. Your friends are just as anxious to get together as you are.

Number Five: The Golden Rule
Treat your friends as you wish to be treated. Stated another way: "To have a friend, be a friend."

Focus more on being interested than on being interesting. Be enthusiastic and energetic. Avoid complaining, gossiping, and criticizing.

Number Six: Sweat the Small Stuff
Make your friends feel significant by remembering small kindnesses. Notice her new haircut. Remember to ask about her mother-in-law's surgery. Send flowers or a simple email when you know she needs it most.

Number Seven: Listen
Good listeners are hard to find, and honing your skills can be a long-term project.

A few tips:
* Slow down. Try not to finish your friend's sentences. If you catch yourself planning your response while your friend is still talking, gently remind yourself to focus on the speaker.

* Show her you are listening. Maintain eye contact. Offer nods and murmurs that indicate you understand her point of view.

* Minimize distractions.

* Ask questions.

* Be careful with advice. Assume your friend wants to just vent her frustrations, not ask you for a plan of action. Avoid the phrase, "what you ought to do is..." Offer your opinion only if your friend specifically asks for it (and you believe she will benefit).

Number Eight: Be loyal
We all need someone in our corner. If your friend isn't there to defend herself against gossip or criticism, speak up, and know she would do the same for you.

by Susie Michelle Cortright

Source :http://www.allthatwomenwant.com/friend.html